I asked my partner to choose the porn I watched for a week

NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT ‘I don’t want you to watch,’ I told my partner, who was eagerly looking at me.  Lying in my bathtub, I tried not to drop my phone in the water as I moved my eyes away from him and back on to two women rolling around on a mattress on my screen.Gay porno Their naked bodies were covered in so much massage oil that it resembled dripping goo. I’ve always enjoyed porn, but in the past few months, I’ve become bored by the repetitive scenarios and genres I usually end up watching. So, I came up with an idea – in an effort to spice things up and reignite my love for a dirty film, I asked my lover to send me something to watch every day for a week. As I looked at my screen, I wondered if I’d made a horrible mistake.  My partner sat on a stool in the bathroom, with an apologetic look on his face.  Having recently told him that my sexuality is fluid, I wasn’t surprised when he dug out a ‘girl-on-girl’ clip as my first watch. But the sounds and actions were clearly exaggerated and not something I imagine any woman – gay, straight or otherwise – would find attractive. The oil sludge was extremely off-putting, too. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we’ll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can’t wait for you to join us! But I didn’t expect what happened next. As the film came to an end, the video threw up a few ‘suggested’ options, one of which looked appealing. I clicked on it, and in one second, this unexpected clip brought my libido back to life. It was a gentler and more authentic lesbian scenario. I was eager to start pleasuring myself but with my fully dressed lover in the same room, I suddenly felt embarrassed – which is why I asked him to exit. He then threw a curveball. ‘Okay, I’ll just have a wank in the living room while you have one in here,’ he said. The experience was thrilling. Knowing that we were both seeing to ourselves somewhere in the same house made my toes curl. A few minutes later, we both climaxed – separately. This was the first delicious surprise from a week of watching porn but there were plenty of other great experiences awaiting me. A few days later, he sent me a clip while we were in bed together. He’d chosen this one more carefully and the excitement was palpable, as he urged me to give it a watch, while lovingly nibbling my ear. I was feeling very sleepy but in the name of research, I grabbed his computer from the nightstand and pressed play. Two curvy women with large breasts, both wearing black lingerie, appeared on screen.  The fact he selected a clip with actors who have this body shape is oddly flattering. You see, my partner frequently tells me how much he enjoys my body, even the rounder parts that I sometimes feel awkward about myself. It helped confirm his love for my curvy frame, which not only made me feel appreciated but also got my motor running. Thankfully, there was no oil in sight. My lover spooned me from behind while playing with himself, as I focused on my own pleasure. The fact we weren’t facing each other made the experience even hotter. I could feel him in my back and his breath on my neck, as he kissed my shoulder.  The porn was quite unremarkable but it was a nice background effect to our activities.  Ever the dutiful partner, he kept sending me a clip every day but watching porn for seven days straight is actually quite exhausting. Work and life got in the way, and I’m not horny 24/7. So I decided to save the last few options for one big porn viewing session instead. I set myself up in bed, having sent my partner to the shops to get us some snacks. He had no idea what I was up to but was pleasantly surprised by what he encountered on his return. Once again, I felt embarrassed, just as I had in the bathtub – not because I was in any way ashamed of watching porn. I believe adult movies can be a great tool to help people explore their sexuality, if it is done with care. I just usually enjoy porn solo – this week has pushed me out of my comfort zone.  Nevertheless, I shook off the feeling and asked him to take his clothes off and join me.  Watching the screen, we both stifled a laugh as a woman knelt blindfolded on the floor, while she ‘tasted’ each of her friends in an effort to guess which vulva belonged to which pal.  They all took a turn and it began to feel quite repetitive. Five minutes later, there was a badly-produced transition and the same women were now poolside, having sex with each other and a group of men in a very loud orgy. My lover found the scene hot but I was too distracted by the different sex positions, faces and bodies to focus on my task at hand. None of them looked like they were having that much fun. We moved onto the next choice – and our final dirty film for the week. I asked my lover to select something a bit more unusual; something that he enjoyed that might be considered out of the norm. He typed in ‘female fake taxi’ – a genre I’d never really heard of.  It’s pretty much what it says on the tin; a woman drives a female passenger in her taxi, and then they shag in the backseat.  Their thick British accents were jarring to me – I couldn’t stop giggling –  but my partner loved it. The porn didn’t add much to my experience but it was nice to learn something new about him. The Harry Potter casting call confirmed my worst fears I bled for an entire year because doctors said I was ‘too young’ I opened the freezer and burst into tears at what I saw I can’t get over what I saw at the school gates All in all, I highly recommend this experiment. Just be careful when you select the porn and perhaps start with something less graphic. For instance, if your lover rarely watches porn, don’t jump straight into a gang-bang scenario. I gave my sexual partner free reign but he knows me well, so I wasn’t concerned. I was just so pleasantly surprised by how exciting it was to await his daily selection. I’m second-fiddle to everything my partner does – are we drifting apart? Next week, it’s my turn. Do you have a story you’d like to share? Get in touch by emailing jess.austin@metro.co.uk.  Share your views in the comments below.

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Sexual strangulation can mean minutes to death yet half of young people do it

We’re sorry, this feature is currently unavailable. We’re working to restore it. Please try again later. Add articles to your saved list and come back to them any time. Sexual strangulation has become so popular that more than half of Australian young people have used it for pleasure, though it can cause lasting brain damage in seconds and death within minutes.Gay porno Known as sexual “choking”, the practice has taken off because it is mainstreamed in contemporary pornography, researchers say, but new national data shows it is so widespread that 57 per cent of those aged 18 to 35 have been strangled during sex at least once. More than half (51 per cent) had strangled a partner during sex, according to a study of 4702 young people around Australia by the University of Melbourne Law School and the University of Queensland. Dr Jo Parkin, a forensic physician, examines those with injuries from sexual strangulation and says there is no safe way to do it.Credit: Jason South Close to one-third of those who had been strangled by a sexual partner were aged between 19 and 21 when it first happened. Respondents who had been strangled had it done an average of five times, by three partners, the research, published on Tuesday in Archives of Sexual Behavior, found. Police, physicians and the researchers, led by Professor Heather Douglas, say there is no safe way to use choking during sex. They say understanding of the dangers is so lacking that even those who consent to it are not aware of the grave risks to their brain health and life. Douglas said brain injury from repeated strangulation could build up, like the impact of concussion among sportspeople. Symptoms, including stroke, could occur up to many months later. Strangulation in sex is the second most common cause of stroke in women under 40, UK research suggests. “It [sexual strangulation] is happening incredibly frequently, people are doing it regularly … and half the people are doing it at least several times,” said Douglas, who has been researching non-lethal strangulation for several years. “Brain injury accumulates – the more times you are strangled, the greater the impact on the brain. I suspect there are probably a lot of young people with impacts on their brain as a result of this behaviour and that’s incredibly concerning.” Blood clots, “thyroid storm” – increased heart rate, blood pressure, and body temperature that could be fatal – and miscarriage might happen in the weeks or months after strangulation, Douglas said. Consent campaigner Chanel Contos has warned that choking is considered normal in her age group even though it is highly unsafe.Credit: Alex Ellinghausen Pressure on young women not to be vanilla in their sexual practice was contributing to the rise in the popularity of choking, the experts said, though many young women in the new research were comfortable giving consent. Women’s safety experts have long warned that strangulation is an indicator of potential future homicide. Consent advocate Chanel Contos has been warning since 2022 that choking, though never safe, has been normalised from kink to “not out of the ordinary” in her age group. Forensic physician Dr Jo Parkin said sexual strangulation was exceptionally dangerous, and sexual choking memes were being promoted in social media hashtags. “In terms of what [young people are] seeing, it’s not just the hands around the neck; it can be a ligature, clothing, it can be rope or just a forearm across the neck,” said Parkin. “It can be legs used in what is being promoted as a playful hold, but it isn’t. There is no safe level of neck compression in a community setting.” She said it was not possible to give informed consent because people did not understand the risks, “which are in seconds a loss of consciousness and minutes to death”. “They don’t understand the anatomy of the neck and the risk of compression of the vital structures,” Parkin said. “Within seconds, once you’ve lost consciousness, you can have seizures, and ongoing compression leads to death.” There have been documented cases where serious impacts to the brain from sexual strangulation have not appeared until one year after the incident. But in 40 to 50 per cent of cases that Parkin and her colleagues examine at the Victorian Institute of Forensic Medicine, there are no external symptoms or signs of it at the time. Jackie McMillan, senior project officer at Women’s Health NSW, said it was important for those using choking to understand you could acquire a brain injury without losing consciousness, and other symptoms were an indication urgent medical help should be sought. “More serious choking involves loss of consciousness and sometimes urination and sometimes defecation; so if you engage in sexual choking and one of these things happens, you definitely need to seek medical advice,” she said. Violence-prevention educator Maree Crabbe said that as well as pornography influencers, mainstream TV was showing sexual strangulation as “a relatively normal part of the sexual script”. Young people she had interviewed for a forthcoming campaign around sexual strangulation, Breathless, said they believed it could be done safely. Maree Crabbe says pornography companies are promoting strangulation during sex, which can be deadly.Credit: Eddie Jim “People from different places, cultural backgrounds and socioeconomic groups all talked about strangulation being normal; our team was shocked,” she said. “What was really concerning was the way it was framed as about being adventurous … and if they express lack of enthusiasm, or resistance, to engaging in strangulation or other rough sex, they are seen as vanilla and that’s shameful.” Crabbe said the fact porn was promoting consent of very dangerous practices “raises questions about having multibillion-dollar industries shaping our sexual experience in ways that put other people’s lives at risk”. More support for young people was required to help define who they want to be in their sexual roles. A Victoria Police spokeswoman said if someone consented to sex, it did not mean they consented to other acts, and that non-consensual strangulation during sex was assault. “There needs to be clear and affirmed consent before and during the act. We want to make it clear that there is no safe way to strangle someone.” Support is available from the National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service at 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). Get the day’s breaking news, entertainment ideas and a long read to enjoy. Sign up to receive our Evening Edition newsletter here. Copyright © 2024

I asked my partner to choose the porn I watched for a week

NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT ‘I don’t want you to watch,’ I told my partner, who was eagerly looking at me.  Lying in my bathtub, I tried not to drop my phone in the water as I moved my eyes away from him and back on to two women rolling around on a mattress on my screen. Their naked bodies were covered in so much massage oil that it resembled dripping goo.Bonsai Casino I’ve always enjoyed porn, but in the past few months, I’ve become bored by the repetitive scenarios and genres I usually end up watching. So, I came up with an idea – in an effort to spice things up and reignite my love for a dirty film, I asked my lover to send me something to watch every day for a week. As I looked at my screen, I wondered if I’d made a horrible mistake.  My partner sat on a stool in the bathroom, with an apologetic look on his face.  Having recently told him that my sexuality is fluid, I wasn’t surprised when he dug out a ‘girl-on-girl’ clip as my first watch. But the sounds and actions were clearly exaggerated and not something I imagine any woman – gay, straight or otherwise – would find attractive. The oil sludge was extremely off-putting, too. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we’ll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can’t wait for you to join us! But I didn’t expect what happened next. As the film came to an end, the video threw up a few ‘suggested’ options, one of which looked appealing. I clicked on it, and in one second, this unexpected clip brought my libido back to life. It was a gentler and more authentic lesbian scenario. I was eager to start pleasuring myself but with my fully dressed lover in the same room, I suddenly felt embarrassed – which is why I asked him to exit. He then threw a curveball. ‘Okay, I’ll just have a wank in the living room while you have one in here,’ he said. The experience was thrilling. Knowing that we were both seeing to ourselves somewhere in the same house made my toes curl. A few minutes later, we both climaxed – separately. This was the first delicious surprise from a week of watching porn but there were plenty of other great experiences awaiting me. A few days later, he sent me a clip while we were in bed together. He’d chosen this one more carefully and the excitement was palpable, as he urged me to give it a watch, while lovingly nibbling my ear. I was feeling very sleepy but in the name of research, I grabbed his computer from the nightstand and pressed play. Two curvy women with large breasts, both wearing black lingerie, appeared on screen.  The fact he selected a clip with actors who have this body shape is oddly flattering. You see, my partner frequently tells me how much he enjoys my body, even the rounder parts that I sometimes feel awkward about myself. It helped confirm his love for my curvy frame, which not only made me feel appreciated but also got my motor running. Thankfully, there was no oil in sight. My lover spooned me from behind while playing with himself, as I focused on my own pleasure. The fact we weren’t facing each other made the experience even hotter. I could feel him in my back and his breath on my neck, as he kissed my shoulder.  The porn was quite unremarkable but it was a nice background effect to our activities.  Ever the dutiful partner, he kept sending me a clip every day but watching porn for seven days straight is actually quite exhausting. Work and life got in the way, and I’m not horny 24/7. So I decided to save the last few options for one big porn viewing session instead. I set myself up in bed, having sent my partner to the shops to get us some snacks. He had no idea what I was up to but was pleasantly surprised by what he encountered on his return. Once again, I felt embarrassed, just as I had in the bathtub – not because I was in any way ashamed of watching porn. I believe adult movies can be a great tool to help people explore their sexuality, if it is done with care. I just usually enjoy porn solo – this week has pushed me out of my comfort zone.  Nevertheless, I shook off the feeling and asked him to take his clothes off and join me.  Watching the screen, we both stifled a laugh as a woman knelt blindfolded on the floor, while she ‘tasted’ each of her friends in an effort to guess which vulva belonged to which pal.  They all took a turn and it began to feel quite repetitive. Five minutes later, there was a badly-produced transition and the same women were now poolside, having sex with each other and a group of men in a very loud orgy. My lover found the scene hot but I was too distracted by the different sex positions, faces and bodies to focus on my task at hand. None of them looked like they were having that much fun. We moved onto the next choice – and our final dirty film for the week. I asked my lover to select something a bit more unusual; something that he enjoyed that might be considered out of the norm. He typed in ‘female fake taxi’ – a genre I’d never really heard of.  It’s pretty much what it says on the tin; a woman drives a female passenger in her taxi, and then they shag in the backseat.  Their thick British accents were jarring to me – I couldn’t stop giggling –  but my partner loved it. The porn didn’t add much to my experience but it was nice to learn something new about him. The Harry Potter casting call confirmed my worst fears I bled for an entire year because doctors said I was ‘too young’ I opened the freezer and burst into tears at what I saw I can’t get over what I saw at the school gates All in all, I highly recommend this experiment. Just be careful when you select the porn and perhaps start with something less graphic. For instance, if your lover rarely watches porn, don’t jump straight into a gang-bang scenario. I gave my sexual partner free reign but he knows me well, so I wasn’t concerned. I was just so pleasantly surprised by how exciting it was to await his daily selection. I’m second-fiddle to everything my partner does – are we drifting apart? Next week, it’s my turn. Do you have a story you’d like to share? Get in touch by emailing jess.austin@metro.co.uk.  Share your views in the comments below.

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Gen Zs latest obsession is a designer vagina surgery inspired by porn social media

More than half a million Australians have had – or have considered – designer vagina surgery, new research has found, under the influence of mainstream pornography and social media. Now one of the fastest growing cosmetic procedures among young people in Australia and worldwide, the surgery, known as labiaplasty, involves the removal or altering of tissues from the labia, the folds of skin that sit on either side of a person’s vaginal opening.Gay porno While there can be health reasons for reducing the size of the labia, the “unrealistic body standards” modeled both within porn and on social media are to blame for a new generation of people with vaginas considering the procedure purely for cosmetic reasons, a study published on Monday by Women’s Health Victoria and YouGov found. The Real Bodies: Understanding and Celebrating Labia Diversity report surveyed 1030 girls, women and gender-diverse people aged to 18 to 50 about their attitudes toward their genitalia. Almost a quarter (23 per cent) of respondents aged to 18 to 24 said they felt anxious, unhappy or embarrassed about how their labia look, while 35 per cent said they associated it with negative words like “weird”, “disgusting” or “ugly”. “Although conversations around sex and body positivity have come such a long way, my generation still don’t often talk about labia,” respectful relationships and consent advocate Libby Payne said. “Many people my age don’t know the difference between the vagina and the vulva, let alone that labia come in all shapes and sizes.” A whopping one in 10 respondents – the equivalent of more than half a million Aussies – said they had or have considered the procedure, which carries significant risk and is not proven to improve self esteem, body image or sexual satisfaction. Of those, almost half (46 percent) said their decision was influenced by images and videos online. One in five (19 percent) of Gen Zs said they obtain their information of what their genitalia “should look like” through porn, in which performers’ labia are often airbrushed, filtered, and even surgically altered. Almost a third of Gen Zs said they obtain their information of what genitalia “should look like” – prompting calls from experts and medical professionals for more inclusive relationship and sexual education in all schools, and faster progress on the Federal Government’s regulation of young people’s access to online pornography. “When we fail to provide sex and relationships education that includes the true diversity of human bodies it’s no wonder young people assume the genitalia they see in porn are the norm,” Payne said. “While there is great porn that can boost self-confidence and pleasure, there is still a lot out there that can be damaging. The unrealistic body standards that are modeled both within porn, and in our social media advertising, can cause young people to be concerned their own vulva doesn’t look right, or is misshapen.” The young people the 24-year-old works with, she said, “list the endless pressures they feel are placed on how their bodies should look, such as being hairless or having a ‘tucked-in’ slit”. One in eight respondents said they had delayed a GP visit for sexual and reproductive concerns due to being embarrassed about the appearance of their labia, while 13 percent said they have felt embarrassed or unwilling to have sex. “Increasingly I’m hearing they are anxious and embarrassed about their body as they are worried their partner is comparing it to what they have seen in porn,” Payne added. “We cannot leave our young people thinking their bodies are wrong. “We must encourage conversation that normalizes and celebrates the differences in size, color, symmetry, and shape of the vulva and labia.” Dr Melissa Kang, who works with marginalized young people, particularly on adolescent sexual health, echoed the sentiment. “What we need to talk about more, especially with young women and girls (cis and trans inclusive), is how labia are diverse and unique, and come in all different shapes, sizes and colors,” Kang said. Advertisement

I asked my partner to choose the porn I watched for a week

NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT ‘I don’t want you to watch,’ I told my partner, who was eagerly looking at me.  Lying in my bathtub, I tried not to drop my phone in the water as I moved my eyes away from him and back on to two women rolling around on a mattress on my screen.Gay porno Their naked bodies were covered in so much massage oil that it resembled dripping goo. I’ve always enjoyed porn, but in the past few months, I’ve become bored by the repetitive scenarios and genres I usually end up watching. So, I came up with an idea – in an effort to spice things up and reignite my love for a dirty film, I asked my lover to send me something to watch every day for a week. As I looked at my screen, I wondered if I’d made a horrible mistake.  My partner sat on a stool in the bathroom, with an apologetic look on his face.  Having recently told him that my sexuality is fluid, I wasn’t surprised when he dug out a ‘girl-on-girl’ clip as my first watch. But the sounds and actions were clearly exaggerated and not something I imagine any woman – gay, straight or otherwise – would find attractive. The oil sludge was extremely off-putting, too. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we’ll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can’t wait for you to join us! But I didn’t expect what happened next. As the film came to an end, the video threw up a few ‘suggested’ options, one of which looked appealing. I clicked on it, and in one second, this unexpected clip brought my libido back to life. It was a gentler and more authentic lesbian scenario. I was eager to start pleasuring myself but with my fully dressed lover in the same room, I suddenly felt embarrassed – which is why I asked him to exit. He then threw a curveball. ‘Okay, I’ll just have a wank in the living room while you have one in here,’ he said. The experience was thrilling. Knowing that we were both seeing to ourselves somewhere in the same house made my toes curl. A few minutes later, we both climaxed – separately. This was the first delicious surprise from a week of watching porn but there were plenty of other great experiences awaiting me. A few days later, he sent me a clip while we were in bed together. He’d chosen this one more carefully and the excitement was palpable, as he urged me to give it a watch, while lovingly nibbling my ear. I was feeling very sleepy but in the name of research, I grabbed his computer from the nightstand and pressed play. Two curvy women with large breasts, both wearing black lingerie, appeared on screen.  The fact he selected a clip with actors who have this body shape is oddly flattering. You see, my partner frequently tells me how much he enjoys my body, even the rounder parts that I sometimes feel awkward about myself. It helped confirm his love for my curvy frame, which not only made me feel appreciated but also got my motor running. Thankfully, there was no oil in sight. My lover spooned me from behind while playing with himself, as I focused on my own pleasure. The fact we weren’t facing each other made the experience even hotter. I could feel him in my back and his breath on my neck, as he kissed my shoulder.  The porn was quite unremarkable but it was a nice background effect to our activities.  Ever the dutiful partner, he kept sending me a clip every day but watching porn for seven days straight is actually quite exhausting. Work and life got in the way, and I’m not horny 24/7. So I decided to save the last few options for one big porn viewing session instead. I set myself up in bed, having sent my partner to the shops to get us some snacks. He had no idea what I was up to but was pleasantly surprised by what he encountered on his return. Once again, I felt embarrassed, just as I had in the bathtub – not because I was in any way ashamed of watching porn. I believe adult movies can be a great tool to help people explore their sexuality, if it is done with care. I just usually enjoy porn solo – this week has pushed me out of my comfort zone.  Nevertheless, I shook off the feeling and asked him to take his clothes off and join me.  Watching the screen, we both stifled a laugh as a woman knelt blindfolded on the floor, while she ‘tasted’ each of her friends in an effort to guess which vulva belonged to which pal.  They all took a turn and it began to feel quite repetitive. Five minutes later, there was a badly-produced transition and the same women were now poolside, having sex with each other and a group of men in a very loud orgy. My lover found the scene hot but I was too distracted by the different sex positions, faces and bodies to focus on my task at hand. None of them looked like they were having that much fun. We moved onto the next choice – and our final dirty film for the week. I asked my lover to select something a bit more unusual; something that he enjoyed that might be considered out of the norm. He typed in ‘female fake taxi’ – a genre I’d never really heard of.  It’s pretty much what it says on the tin; a woman drives a female passenger in her taxi, and then they shag in the backseat.  Their thick British accents were jarring to me – I couldn’t stop giggling –  but my partner loved it. The porn didn’t add much to my experience but it was nice to learn something new about him. The Harry Potter casting call confirmed my worst fears I bled for an entire year because doctors said I was ‘too young’ I opened the freezer and burst into tears at what I saw I can’t get over what I saw at the school gates All in all, I highly recommend this experiment. Just be careful when you select the porn and perhaps start with something less graphic. For instance, if your lover rarely watches porn, don’t jump straight into a gang-bang scenario. I gave my sexual partner free reign but he knows me well, so I wasn’t concerned. I was just so pleasantly surprised by how exciting it was to await his daily selection. I’m second-fiddle to everything my partner does – are we drifting apart? Next week, it’s my turn. Do you have a story you’d like to share? Get in touch by emailing jess.austin@metro.co.uk.  Share your views in the comments below.

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I asked my partner to choose the porn I watched for a week

NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT ‘I don’t want you to watch,’ I told my partner, who was eagerly looking at me.  Lying in my bathtub, I tried not to drop my phone in the water as I moved my eyes away from him and back on to two women rolling around on a mattress on my screen. Their naked bodies were covered in so much massage oil that it resembled dripping goo.Gay porno I’ve always enjoyed porn, but in the past few months, I’ve become bored by the repetitive scenarios and genres I usually end up watching. So, I came up with an idea – in an effort to spice things up and reignite my love for a dirty film, I asked my lover to send me something to watch every day for a week. As I looked at my screen, I wondered if I’d made a horrible mistake.  My partner sat on a stool in the bathroom, with an apologetic look on his face.  Having recently told him that my sexuality is fluid, I wasn’t surprised when he dug out a ‘girl-on-girl’ clip as my first watch. But the sounds and actions were clearly exaggerated and not something I imagine any woman – gay, straight or otherwise – would find attractive. The oil sludge was extremely off-putting, too. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we’ll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can’t wait for you to join us! But I didn’t expect what happened next. As the film came to an end, the video threw up a few ‘suggested’ options, one of which looked appealing. I clicked on it, and in one second, this unexpected clip brought my libido back to life. It was a gentler and more authentic lesbian scenario. I was eager to start pleasuring myself but with my fully dressed lover in the same room, I suddenly felt embarrassed – which is why I asked him to exit. He then threw a curveball. ‘Okay, I’ll just have a wank in the living room while you have one in here,’ he said. The experience was thrilling. Knowing that we were both seeing to ourselves somewhere in the same house made my toes curl. A few minutes later, we both climaxed – separately. This was the first delicious surprise from a week of watching porn but there were plenty of other great experiences awaiting me. A few days later, he sent me a clip while we were in bed together. He’d chosen this one more carefully and the excitement was palpable, as he urged me to give it a watch, while lovingly nibbling my ear. I was feeling very sleepy but in the name of research, I grabbed his computer from the nightstand and pressed play. Two curvy women with large breasts, both wearing black lingerie, appeared on screen.  The fact he selected a clip with actors who have this body shape is oddly flattering. You see, my partner frequently tells me how much he enjoys my body, even the rounder parts that I sometimes feel awkward about myself. It helped confirm his love for my curvy frame, which not only made me feel appreciated but also got my motor running. Thankfully, there was no oil in sight. My lover spooned me from behind while playing with himself, as I focused on my own pleasure. The fact we weren’t facing each other made the experience even hotter. I could feel him in my back and his breath on my neck, as he kissed my shoulder.  The porn was quite unremarkable but it was a nice background effect to our activities.  Ever the dutiful partner, he kept sending me a clip every day but watching porn for seven days straight is actually quite exhausting. Work and life got in the way, and I’m not horny 24/7. So I decided to save the last few options for one big porn viewing session instead. I set myself up in bed, having sent my partner to the shops to get us some snacks. He had no idea what I was up to but was pleasantly surprised by what he encountered on his return. Once again, I felt embarrassed, just as I had in the bathtub – not because I was in any way ashamed of watching porn. I believe adult movies can be a great tool to help people explore their sexuality, if it is done with care. I just usually enjoy porn solo – this week has pushed me out of my comfort zone.  Nevertheless, I shook off the feeling and asked him to take his clothes off and join me.  Watching the screen, we both stifled a laugh as a woman knelt blindfolded on the floor, while she ‘tasted’ each of her friends in an effort to guess which vulva belonged to which pal.  They all took a turn and it began to feel quite repetitive. Five minutes later, there was a badly-produced transition and the same women were now poolside, having sex with each other and a group of men in a very loud orgy. My lover found the scene hot but I was too distracted by the different sex positions, faces and bodies to focus on my task at hand. None of them looked like they were having that much fun. We moved onto the next choice – and our final dirty film for the week. I asked my lover to select something a bit more unusual; something that he enjoyed that might be considered out of the norm. He typed in ‘female fake taxi’ – a genre I’d never really heard of.  It’s pretty much what it says on the tin; a woman drives a female passenger in her taxi, and then they shag in the backseat.  Their thick British accents were jarring to me – I couldn’t stop giggling –  but my partner loved it. The porn didn’t add much to my experience but it was nice to learn something new about him. The Harry Potter casting call confirmed my worst fears I bled for an entire year because doctors said I was ‘too young’ I opened the freezer and burst into tears at what I saw I can’t get over what I saw at the school gates All in all, I highly recommend this experiment. Just be careful when you select the porn and perhaps start with something less graphic. For instance, if your lover rarely watches porn, don’t jump straight into a gang-bang scenario. I gave my sexual partner free reign but he knows me well, so I wasn’t concerned. I was just so pleasantly surprised by how exciting it was to await his daily selection. I’m second-fiddle to everything my partner does – are we drifting apart? Next week, it’s my turn. Do you have a story you’d like to share? Get in touch by emailing jess.austin@metro.co.uk.  Share your views in the comments below.

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I asked my partner to choose the porn I watched for a week

NEWS… BUT NOT AS YOU KNOW IT ‘I don’t want you to watch,’ I told my partner, who was eagerly looking at me.  Lying in my bathtub, I tried not to drop my phone in the water as I moved my eyes away from him and back on to two women rolling around on a mattress on my screen. Their naked bodies were covered in so much massage oil that it resembled dripping goo.Gay porno I’ve always enjoyed porn, but in the past few months, I’ve become bored by the repetitive scenarios and genres I usually end up watching. So, I came up with an idea – in an effort to spice things up and reignite my love for a dirty film, I asked my lover to send me something to watch every day for a week. As I looked at my screen, I wondered if I’d made a horrible mistake.  My partner sat on a stool in the bathroom, with an apologetic look on his face.  Having recently told him that my sexuality is fluid, I wasn’t surprised when he dug out a ‘girl-on-girl’ clip as my first watch. But the sounds and actions were clearly exaggerated and not something I imagine any woman – gay, straight or otherwise – would find attractive. The oil sludge was extremely off-putting, too. Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we’ll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can’t wait for you to join us! But I didn’t expect what happened next. As the film came to an end, the video threw up a few ‘suggested’ options, one of which looked appealing. I clicked on it, and in one second, this unexpected clip brought my libido back to life. It was a gentler and more authentic lesbian scenario. I was eager to start pleasuring myself but with my fully dressed lover in the same room, I suddenly felt embarrassed – which is why I asked him to exit. He then threw a curveball. ‘Okay, I’ll just have a wank in the living room while you have one in here,’ he said. The experience was thrilling. Knowing that we were both seeing to ourselves somewhere in the same house made my toes curl. A few minutes later, we both climaxed – separately. This was the first delicious surprise from a week of watching porn but there were plenty of other great experiences awaiting me. A few days later, he sent me a clip while we were in bed together. He’d chosen this one more carefully and the excitement was palpable, as he urged me to give it a watch, while lovingly nibbling my ear. I was feeling very sleepy but in the name of research, I grabbed his computer from the nightstand and pressed play. Two curvy women with large breasts, both wearing black lingerie, appeared on screen.  The fact he selected a clip with actors who have this body shape is oddly flattering. You see, my partner frequently tells me how much he enjoys my body, even the rounder parts that I sometimes feel awkward about myself. It helped confirm his love for my curvy frame, which not only made me feel appreciated but also got my motor running. Thankfully, there was no oil in sight. My lover spooned me from behind while playing with himself, as I focused on my own pleasure. The fact we weren’t facing each other made the experience even hotter. I could feel him in my back and his breath on my neck, as he kissed my shoulder.  The porn was quite unremarkable but it was a nice background effect to our activities.  Ever the dutiful partner, he kept sending me a clip every day but watching porn for seven days straight is actually quite exhausting. Work and life got in the way, and I’m not horny 24/7. So I decided to save the last few options for one big porn viewing session instead. I set myself up in bed, having sent my partner to the shops to get us some snacks. He had no idea what I was up to but was pleasantly surprised by what he encountered on his return. Once again, I felt embarrassed, just as I had in the bathtub – not because I was in any way ashamed of watching porn. I believe adult movies can be a great tool to help people explore their sexuality, if it is done with care. I just usually enjoy porn solo – this week has pushed me out of my comfort zone.  Nevertheless, I shook off the feeling and asked him to take his clothes off and join me.  Watching the screen, we both stifled a laugh as a woman knelt blindfolded on the floor, while she ‘tasted’ each of her friends in an effort to guess which vulva belonged to which pal.  They all took a turn and it began to feel quite repetitive. Five minutes later, there was a badly-produced transition and the same women were now poolside, having sex with each other and a group of men in a very loud orgy. My lover found the scene hot but I was too distracted by the different sex positions, faces and bodies to focus on my task at hand. None of them looked like they were having that much fun. We moved onto the next choice – and our final dirty film for the week. I asked my lover to select something a bit more unusual; something that he enjoyed that might be considered out of the norm. He typed in ‘female fake taxi’ – a genre I’d never really heard of.  It’s pretty much what it says on the tin; a woman drives a female passenger in her taxi, and then they shag in the backseat.  Their thick British accents were jarring to me – I couldn’t stop giggling –  but my partner loved it. The porn didn’t add much to my experience but it was nice to learn something new about him. The Harry Potter casting call confirmed my worst fears I bled for an entire year because doctors said I was ‘too young’ I opened the freezer and burst into tears at what I saw I can’t get over what I saw at the school gates All in all, I highly recommend this experiment. Just be careful when you select the porn and perhaps start with something less graphic. For instance, if your lover rarely watches porn, don’t jump straight into a gang-bang scenario. I gave my sexual partner free reign but he knows me well, so I wasn’t concerned. I was just so pleasantly surprised by how exciting it was to await his daily selection. I’m second-fiddle to everything my partner does – are we drifting apart? Next week, it’s my turn. Do you have a story you’d like to share? Get in touch by emailing jess.austin@metro.co.uk.  Share your views in the comments below.

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Southern Alberta man sentenced to 4 years for possession of child porn

A 41-year-old southern Alberta man has been sentenced to four years after police found more than half a million images and videos of child porn on his computers.

The man, who can’t be identified in order to protect the identity of the young victim, was charged last November after police followed up on a tip about possible child abuse.Gay porno

On Sept. 19, 2023, members of the Alberta Law Enforcement Response Teams’ Internet Child Exploitation (ICE) unit searched a home in Barnwell, Alta.

ICE investigators seized a number of computers and arrested the 41-year-old, charging him with sexual assault and making, accessing and possessing child pornography.

A 34-year-old woman, identified as the mother of the victim, was also charged in connection with the incident.

She was found guilty and is expected to be sentenced in November.

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